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When it comes to women, what does success actually mean to you?
Seriously, think about it for a second. If I asked you to define what “ultimate success” with women looks like for you—down to the tiniest detail—could you do it?
Most guys would throw out something like:
- “I’d be able to walk up to any woman and get her number.”
- “I’d date as many women as I want.”
- “I’d have a smoking hot girlfriend.”
Sound familiar?
Well, here’s the problem: Those answers don’t really mean anything.
Why? Because even if you manage to tick those boxes, you’d quickly realize there’s a lot more to it than you thought.
- Get her number? Great. But then what? What happens when you’re actually out on that date?
- Date multiple women? Cool. But juggling those relationships can be chaotic and draining.
- A sexy girlfriend? Sure. But what if she comes with baggage, insecurities, or other issues you’re not prepared for?
Be Careful What You Wish For
I learned this the hard way. Back when I decided to figure out how to be “successful” with women, I made all the classic mistakes. I chased phone numbers like a man on a mission, thinking that once I mastered the art of getting digits, I’d have it all figured out.
Spoiler alert: I didn’t.
Sure, I got phone numbers. Tons of them. But guess what?
Most of those numbers never turned into dates.
- Calls went unanswered.
- Plans were canceled.
- Interest fizzled out faster than cheap soda.
And you know what? The problem wasn’t the women. It was me.
The Two Biggest Mistakes Most Guys Make
- They Don’t Know What Success Really Means to Them
Most guys base their definition of success on what society, movies, or their friends think is “cool.” They chase an image, not what truly makes them happy. - They Play the Comparison Game
It’s easy to look at another guy and think, “I want his life.” You might envy the women he dates or the attention he gets, but here’s the thing: His life isn’t yours. And chasing someone else’s version of success will never make you happy.
I used to think that if I could date the kind of women my friends would envy, they’d see me as cool or accomplished. But you know what I learned?
- Chasing validation from others is a losing game.
- Even your “friends” might envy you more than celebrate your wins.
Redefining Success: What Really Matters
Here’s the deal: Success with women isn’t one-size-fits-all. It’s personal. Here’s how you can figure out what it means for YOU:
1. Get Clear on What You Want
Take time to really think about what kind of relationship or dating life would make you happy. Not your friends, not society—you.
Do you want a long-term relationship?
Do you want to date around for a while?
What kind of woman would you truly connect with?
Be honest with yourself. Write it down.
2. Stop Romanticizing “Hot Women”
Yes, physical attraction matters, but there’s more to a fulfilling connection. If you want a woman who’s funny, intelligent, emotionally stable, and independent, know that those women are in high demand.
Translation: You’d better have your act together.
The woman you dream of isn’t sitting on a street corner waiting for you to walk by. And when you meet her, she’s going to have options. You need to be the kind of man she can’t ignore.
The Rare Skill Every Man Needs
If you take one thing away from this, let it be this: Success with women comes down to understanding ATTRACTION, as explained here in my eBook.
Not looks. Not money. Not smooth lines.
Attraction is an emotion. And if you can trigger it, you’re golden.
When a woman feels genuine attraction for a man, everything else fades into the background. Your income, your car, your age—none of it matters.
On the flip side, if she doesn’t feel attraction? Forget it. Nothing you do will change her mind.
How to Become the Rare, Desirable Man Women Want
Here’s what separates the exceptional men from the rest of the pack:
- Learn What Sparks Attraction
Attraction isn’t a mystery—it’s a skill. And the good news? You can learn it.
You don’t need movie-star looks or a trust fund. What you need is a solid understanding of what makes a woman’s mind and heart tick. - Stop Settling for Less
Too many guys settle for relationships where the woman “likes” them but doesn’t feel true attraction. Don’t be that guy. Aim higher. - Keep Improving Yourself
Work on your confidence, passions, and life goals. When you’re a man with purpose and self-respect, women notice.
Ready to Take Control of Your Dating Life?
Here’s the truth: Exceptional men who understand how to spark attraction are rare—and that makes them irresistible.
Want to be one of them? Start by learning the science of attraction. My eBook, “The Advanced Bang Rule: Ultimate Guide to Seduction,” is packed with actionable tips to help you become the guy women can’t resist.
Click here to grab your copy now and take the first step toward transforming your love life.
