Let’s talk about something that confuses a lot of men—what women actually find attractive.
At first, it seems easy to figure out. You think, “If I’m nice, look good, and treat her well, she’ll like me.” Right?
Wrong.
The truth is, what attracts women doesn’t always make sense to men. In fact, it’s so different from how we think, it can be hard to understand at first. But once you get it, everything changes.
Let me break it down.
My Story
When I first decided to work on my dating life, I thought I could figure it out by reading books, thinking hard about it, and asking people for advice.
I thought, “I’m smart. I can figure this out quickly.”
But I couldn’t.
I tried everything I thought would work—being nice, buying gifts, dressing well—but women didn’t respond the way I wanted.
Instead of seeing me as someone they wanted to date, they saw me as just a friend.
And every time it didn’t work, I blamed myself.
I thought, “Maybe I’m not handsome enough. Maybe I’m not rich enough. Maybe there’s just something wrong with me.”
The Big Lesson
One day, I decided to stop guessing. I started paying attention to guys who were good with women. You know, the ones who always seem to attract women easily.
I watched what they did. I even explained most of them inside my ebook The Advanced Bang rule here
And here’s what I realized:
Women don’t get attracted the same way men do.
Men are visual—we see a beautiful woman, and we’re instantly attracted.
Women are emotional. They’re attracted to a man’s personality and behavior, not just his looks or money.
What Women Want
Here’s the surprising truth:
- Women don’t decide who they like with logic. They don’t sit down and say, “He’s rich and handsome, so I’ll like him.” Attraction happens through emotions.
- Women are drawn to men who have certain qualities—confidence, humor, leadership, and the ability to make them feel something.
Yes, looks and money can help, but they’re not the most important things.
Why Most Men Struggle
Most men think, “If I’m nice and treat her well, she’ll like me.”
But women don’t get attracted to “nice.” In fact, being too nice—always agreeing, bending over backward, or trying too hard—can push her away.
What You Should Do
If you want to attract women, you need to focus on the things that actually matter. Here’s how to start:
- Work on Your Confidence: Women are naturally drawn to confident men. Confidence doesn’t mean being loud or showing off; it means being comfortable with yourself. Go here to learn how to increase your confidence with women – almost instantly
- Be Playful: Learn to joke, tease, and have fun. Women love men who can make them laugh and feel good.
- Take the Lead: Women are attracted to men who know what they want and aren’t afraid to take the lead.
The Key Takeaway
Attraction isn’t about looks or money—it’s about how you make her feel.
If you focus on becoming the kind of man who is confident, playful, and in control of his life, you’ll naturally attract women.
Want to Learn More?
If you’re tired of being “just a friend” or not knowing what to do, I’ve got something that will help.
In my eBook, Advanced Bang Rule, I explain exactly how attraction works and what you can do to create it with women. It’s simple, easy to follow, and it works.
Ready to change your dating life? Grab the Advanced Bang Rule here – click this text
Trust me, once you understand how this works, dating will never be the same.
